We are loving our vacation in Colorado. The weather is beautiful. It has been warm during the day and chilly at night. I love sleeping under a down comforter in July! The scenery is breath taking, as always. But, what I love most about vacation, is how much concentrated family time we get together. There's no job to go to, no homework to finish, no appointments, just good, fun time together. We are especially blessed because our kids are good travelers. They have a sense of adventure and don't mind riding in the car all day to reach an adventure. I love jumping in waterfalls and throwing rocks in the river with my precious family. This year, my parents came with us to Colorado. The kids were both thrilled about that. We got to celebrate the fourth in Ouray with an old-fashioned parade, complete with a fly-over by an old fighter plane. Then the kids had foot races and potato sack races in the park, and fireworks and ice cream that night. The fireworks over the mountains are incredible. And the "boom!" echoes all through the mountains.
We also got to go to Mesa Verde and see the pueblos. It was awe inspiring. It makes you feel good about the human spirit, to see what can be accomplished with little resources.
We are enjoying our time together, and I can't wait to share the pictures when we get home.
With all this togetherness time, we've heard our kids say some things that I don't want to forget, and you may enjoy. So, here are some of the things we've been hearing lately:
Aidan: "What's your name?"
Ella: "Ella Claire"
Aidan: "What's my name?"
Ella: "Bubba Claire"
Aidan: "Daddy, I'm not good at waiting. You just don't understand my culture."
Ella: "Stop this car! I want to get out!"
Aidan: "I like traveling with you mommy. I hope you're still alive when I grow up."
Ella: "Slow down!"
Aidan: "You're driving like a bat out of Hades!"
I'm sure there will be more of these to come... :)
"But as for me, I will always have hope; I will praise you more and more. My mouth will tell of your righteousness, of your salvation all day long, though I know not its measure." Psalm 71:14-15
Friday, July 9, 2010
Saturday, July 3, 2010
Six Years...and no Seven Year Itch in Sight!
First of all, Mark is NOT perfect.
He has more t-shirts than one man should be allowed, and I'm pretty sure that some of them are older than me. There are places on his Zildjian shirt that you can see through!
He always leaves his shoes and socks in the floor wherever he takes them off.
He keeps a small pile of clothes in the corner of our bedroom...he doesn't want to put them away because he might wear them again, but they're not quite ready to go into the hamper either.
He likes LOVES Rush.
He brings me ice cream, candy and cokes when he knows I don't need to be eating that stuff.
He can quote every line from The Big Lebowski and Raising Arizona.
He has a small rectangle of 70's style carpet from his childhood home in our closet that he can't part with.
He is a complete glutton when it comes to ice cream, especially mint chocolate chip.
He frequently pours out my drinks before I am finished with them.
So, with all these flaws, you may be wondering how I've survived the last 6 years. :)
Everyone always told me that marriage was hard work. There are times that are difficult, I suppose, but overall, being married to Mark is easy. It's easy because I always know how he feels about me. He always makes our marriage a priority.
He makes me laugh every day. He supports me in everything I do. He sacrifices financially so that I can be home with our kids.
He is an amazing father. Our children adore and respect him. Mark makes sure that our children are respectful towards me. He not only teaches them how to be Godly people, he lives it out in front of them.
He loves God and tries to live a life pleasing to him; our whole family benefits from Mark's relationship with God.
He is fun to be around.
He is sensitive to my feelings...he always (almost always) recognizes when I'm having a rough day and steps in to make it better.
He makes me feel cherished.
He has a heart for the less fortunate. He is giving and generous, even when there's not much to give.
He is my greatest blessing and my best friend. I love you Mark. Thank you for being you. Happy anniversary.
Thursday, July 1, 2010
Summer Fun Week 5: Colorado Week
Okay, this week is Colorado week, so on Monday we'll be in Colorado, on Tuesday we'll be in Colorado....
In all seriousness, I'm taking a 2 week break from summer fun activities at home to enjoy some summer fun in Colorado. I am looking forward to the cooler weather, the mountains, hiking with my family, reading books on a balcony overlooking the mountains...I'll post lots of pictures!
On a side note, check out the family fun web site if you want some really cute ideas for celebrating the fourth of July.
Happy 4th of July!
Wednesday, June 30, 2010
And While We're on the Subject of Prayer...
It's funny to me that Aidan was teaching Ella to pray. I loved that what he was instructing her to say was so casual and conversational. He talks to God just like he talks to us. I love it...he gets it...it's not about using fancy words, it's about saying what's in your heart...the faith of a child.
Learning to pray has been a lifelong journey for me. My prayers have drastically changed over the last couple of years. The verse, "pray without ceasing" has come to characterize my prayer life (on the good days, anyway). I used to try to set aside time to pray in the morning, or before bed. It was hard to get up any earlier than Aidan, since he is such an early riser. I'm not much of a morning person anyway, and found it hard to focus. By the time I got to go to bed, I usually fell asleep mid-prayer. My life is so busy and unpredictable that I have had to learn to pray without ceasing. I pray in the shower, I pray while I'm packing lunches, I pray while I'm driving, when I'm with the kids, while I'm cleaning, while I'm folding laundry...I pray all day (again, on the good days...I have dry spells too).
There was a time that I couldn't fathom praying all day. I focused on trying to say the right words in the right order. Praise God first, then thank him, then ask for forgiveness of sins, then present your requests...had to be in that order or it wouldn't work, right? I've learned that God is not trying to trick us and is not looking for formulaic prayers. All of those components of prayer are important, but it's so much easier than all of that. It's a conversation. "Thanks God for the rain today. I needed a break from the oppressive heat. Thanks." "Thank you for my children God, who am I that you would bless me in such a way? Love you." "Please help my friend. I don't know how to help them, but you do, so please help." "Help me be more like you. Help me show your character."
Easy, simple prayers...not long drawn out fancy things...easy is more my style.
And one more thing about prayer...I now know why God tells us to pray without ceasing. Otherwise, we would never get it all in. There is so much in the world that needs to be covered with prayer. Friends, family, my husband, his job, my kids...their futures, their presents, my struggle to control my mouth and my attitude, and on and on. It can be overwhelming at times, so I just keep praying...and trying to listen too. Because listening is an important part too...I'm still working on the being still and quiet before the Lord. Prayer is something I'm still learning. I'm glad Aidan has Ella starting early!
Learning to pray has been a lifelong journey for me. My prayers have drastically changed over the last couple of years. The verse, "pray without ceasing" has come to characterize my prayer life (on the good days, anyway). I used to try to set aside time to pray in the morning, or before bed. It was hard to get up any earlier than Aidan, since he is such an early riser. I'm not much of a morning person anyway, and found it hard to focus. By the time I got to go to bed, I usually fell asleep mid-prayer. My life is so busy and unpredictable that I have had to learn to pray without ceasing. I pray in the shower, I pray while I'm packing lunches, I pray while I'm driving, when I'm with the kids, while I'm cleaning, while I'm folding laundry...I pray all day (again, on the good days...I have dry spells too).
There was a time that I couldn't fathom praying all day. I focused on trying to say the right words in the right order. Praise God first, then thank him, then ask for forgiveness of sins, then present your requests...had to be in that order or it wouldn't work, right? I've learned that God is not trying to trick us and is not looking for formulaic prayers. All of those components of prayer are important, but it's so much easier than all of that. It's a conversation. "Thanks God for the rain today. I needed a break from the oppressive heat. Thanks." "Thank you for my children God, who am I that you would bless me in such a way? Love you." "Please help my friend. I don't know how to help them, but you do, so please help." "Help me be more like you. Help me show your character."
Easy, simple prayers...not long drawn out fancy things...easy is more my style.
And one more thing about prayer...I now know why God tells us to pray without ceasing. Otherwise, we would never get it all in. There is so much in the world that needs to be covered with prayer. Friends, family, my husband, his job, my kids...their futures, their presents, my struggle to control my mouth and my attitude, and on and on. It can be overwhelming at times, so I just keep praying...and trying to listen too. Because listening is an important part too...I'm still working on the being still and quiet before the Lord. Prayer is something I'm still learning. I'm glad Aidan has Ella starting early!
Prayer
This morning I decided to start the day off by praying with the kids. It's been a stressful week getting ready for our vacation. I knew we needed the focus and comfort that prayer brings. Aidan and I had a good prayer time together. I love hearing him talk to God. I am always surprised by what he prays, and how mature his prayers sound for a 7 year old (not always...but usually). Today, I prayed for peace in our home and the ability to focus on getting tasks accomplished for our trip. I also prayed that God would help us guard our mouths, since we've all been sounding a little smart-aleky lately. Aidan thanked God for Nana and Pawpaw and Mamaw and Gramps and then asked him to surround our car with angels on Friday as we are driving. Ella did not want to participate in the prayer. In fact, she didn't want ANYONE to participate in the prayer. While we prayed, she marched around the kitchen table saying, "no praying! Stop! Stop!" Aidan was very concerned about the condition of her soul and set out to teach her to pray. It was amusing to say the least. Aidan would tell Ella to say, "hi God," and Ella would growl, "hi, God." She was not really into the praying business. But, Aidan was persistent and finally got her to say, "Hi God, I love you, thank you for the angels." It was sweet, even if she did sound like a monster.
Monday, June 28, 2010
The Dream Vs. Reality
The Dream:
We are getting ready for a nice long trip to Colorado. We look forward to it every year. However, it is a lot of added stress on me. I have to pack for three people, make arrangements for someone to take care of the house, the 2 cats the bird and the hermit crabs. The lawn will have to be watered while we're gone, since we don't have a sprinkler system and it is 1000 degrees outside. It's a lot to think about. So, last night I made a list of all that has to be done this week. The plan was to not wait until the last minute, to not be stressed. This is how I envisioned today going as I made my list.
I would go to bed early on Sunday night and get plenty of rest, so that I would have the energy for all that needed to be done. I would wake up early Monday morning while it was still cool (as cool as it gets at the end of June), do my Bible study with a cup of coffee on the patio and weed the flower beds before the kids got up. Then, I would water the lawn, take a shower and get dressed while the kids ate breakfast and got dressed. Next, we would run to the grocery store to get a few last minute things we need for the trip. Then, we would have lunch and make the volcano that I've been promising Aidan. Finally, I would turn a movie on for Aidan, put Ella down for a nap and work on all the laundry that needs to be done before I can pack. I would check all these things off my list and still have the afternoon free to spend with my family.
The Reality:
I fell asleep on the couch on Sunday night while watching Gran Torino (great movie, btw), woke up at 11:30 and decided to go to bed, later than I had hoped. I tried to fall asleep, but Mark coughed until almost 2:00 in the morning and it was well after than when I was finally able to drift off to sleep. I woke up at 6:45, a little later than I had hoped, but still pretty good. Just as I was about to get up and sneak outside to get some work done before the kids woke up, Aidan came running into our room like a ghost was after him and jumped in bed. So, I made Aidan breakfast and went to get dressed. While I was getting dressed, Aidan woke up Ella, because he needed someone to play with. Ella was in an extremely bad mood. Not to be deterred, I told the kids they could jump on the trampoline while I weeded the flower beds. Ella did not want to jump on the trampoline. She wanted me to hold her. I finally convinced her to get in the swing and let Aidan push her. This worked great for about 37 seconds. Aidan decided to tie Ella's swing up with a bungee cord, which resulted in a lot of screaming. I gave up on weeding the flower beds, since Ella was being so needy and Aidan was being so ornery. I decided to water the grass. I set up the sprinkler and went to turn the water on. In the mean time, Ella and Aidan made some adjustments to the sprinkler which caused it to spray directly at me when I turned on the water. The water spigot just happens to be right next to the back door, so water also sprayed into the house.
Not giving up on my list, I took the kids inside and turned on cartoons, so I could take a shower. Everything seemed to be going smoother now, so we all got dressed to go to the grocery store. While at Wal-Mart, Aidan started pouting because I wouldn't let him ride the bikes in the store. Ella decided that she wanted to have a fit for no reason, so she laid down spread eagle in the middle of the floor and started screaming as loud as humanly possible. I finally had to take her to the family restroom to calm her down. When I left the restroom, two Wal-Mart employees were standing outside the door listening.
And, it wasn't even noon yet!
Maybe my expectations were just a little too high? My new goal for the day is a family nap!
We are getting ready for a nice long trip to Colorado. We look forward to it every year. However, it is a lot of added stress on me. I have to pack for three people, make arrangements for someone to take care of the house, the 2 cats the bird and the hermit crabs. The lawn will have to be watered while we're gone, since we don't have a sprinkler system and it is 1000 degrees outside. It's a lot to think about. So, last night I made a list of all that has to be done this week. The plan was to not wait until the last minute, to not be stressed. This is how I envisioned today going as I made my list.
I would go to bed early on Sunday night and get plenty of rest, so that I would have the energy for all that needed to be done. I would wake up early Monday morning while it was still cool (as cool as it gets at the end of June), do my Bible study with a cup of coffee on the patio and weed the flower beds before the kids got up. Then, I would water the lawn, take a shower and get dressed while the kids ate breakfast and got dressed. Next, we would run to the grocery store to get a few last minute things we need for the trip. Then, we would have lunch and make the volcano that I've been promising Aidan. Finally, I would turn a movie on for Aidan, put Ella down for a nap and work on all the laundry that needs to be done before I can pack. I would check all these things off my list and still have the afternoon free to spend with my family.
The Reality:
I fell asleep on the couch on Sunday night while watching Gran Torino (great movie, btw), woke up at 11:30 and decided to go to bed, later than I had hoped. I tried to fall asleep, but Mark coughed until almost 2:00 in the morning and it was well after than when I was finally able to drift off to sleep. I woke up at 6:45, a little later than I had hoped, but still pretty good. Just as I was about to get up and sneak outside to get some work done before the kids woke up, Aidan came running into our room like a ghost was after him and jumped in bed. So, I made Aidan breakfast and went to get dressed. While I was getting dressed, Aidan woke up Ella, because he needed someone to play with. Ella was in an extremely bad mood. Not to be deterred, I told the kids they could jump on the trampoline while I weeded the flower beds. Ella did not want to jump on the trampoline. She wanted me to hold her. I finally convinced her to get in the swing and let Aidan push her. This worked great for about 37 seconds. Aidan decided to tie Ella's swing up with a bungee cord, which resulted in a lot of screaming. I gave up on weeding the flower beds, since Ella was being so needy and Aidan was being so ornery. I decided to water the grass. I set up the sprinkler and went to turn the water on. In the mean time, Ella and Aidan made some adjustments to the sprinkler which caused it to spray directly at me when I turned on the water. The water spigot just happens to be right next to the back door, so water also sprayed into the house.
Not giving up on my list, I took the kids inside and turned on cartoons, so I could take a shower. Everything seemed to be going smoother now, so we all got dressed to go to the grocery store. While at Wal-Mart, Aidan started pouting because I wouldn't let him ride the bikes in the store. Ella decided that she wanted to have a fit for no reason, so she laid down spread eagle in the middle of the floor and started screaming as loud as humanly possible. I finally had to take her to the family restroom to calm her down. When I left the restroom, two Wal-Mart employees were standing outside the door listening.
And, it wasn't even noon yet!
Maybe my expectations were just a little too high? My new goal for the day is a family nap!
Friday, June 25, 2010
Week 4: Volcanoes!
We are WAY behind on all or our summer fun. We never got to pirate week! I'm hoping to get most of these cool volcano activities in.
Okay, this week's theme is volcanoes. If your kids are science junkies like Aidan, they'll love this.
On Monday and Tuesday we are going to make a volcano. We are going to make it on Monday, let it dry, and then explode it on Tuesday.
On Wednesday, we will make chocolate lava volcanoes to eat...yummy! (recipe is below)
On Thursday, we'll make lava in a cup.
Here's the recipe (it is from the book Kids in the Kitchen Year 'Round Fun):
Chocolatey Lava Cakes:
Ingredients:
1 1/3 c. semi-sweet chocolate chips
1/2 c. butter
1/2 tsp. vanilla extract
1/2 c. sugar
1/4 tsp. salt
3 T. all-purpose flour
4 eggs
1 T. baking cocoa
Optional: m&m's candies
Place chocolate and butter in a microwave safe bowl. Microwave on high for 30 seconds at a time until melted. stir until smooth. Stir in vanilla.
Mix sugar, salt and flour in a small bowl. Stir into chocolate mixture.
Beat with an electric mixer on medium. Add eggs, one at a time, and beat on high for 4 minutes. Chill until cold.
Grease 8 cups of a muffin tin lightly. Sprinkle with cocoa and shake off any extra cocoa.
Pour 1/4 c. of batter into each muffin cup. Bake for 10-11 minutes at 375 degrees, until cakes are set on outside but gooey inside. (Don't over bake).
Turn out onto dessert plates and sprinkle with m&m's Serve warm.
I think I'll leave Friday open this week. We've had a really hard time getting to everything each week. I don't think we've been able to do all the activities yet for any of the weeks...so, I'm making Friday a free day/catch up day.
Other free activities you may be interested in this week:
Tuesday and Wednesday (June 29-30): Free movies at 10 am, UA Fossil Creek
This week they are showing: Astro Boy and Rugrats in Paris
Okay, this week's theme is volcanoes. If your kids are science junkies like Aidan, they'll love this.
On Monday and Tuesday we are going to make a volcano. We are going to make it on Monday, let it dry, and then explode it on Tuesday.
On Wednesday, we will make chocolate lava volcanoes to eat...yummy! (recipe is below)
On Thursday, we'll make lava in a cup.
Here's the recipe (it is from the book Kids in the Kitchen Year 'Round Fun):
Chocolatey Lava Cakes:
Ingredients:
1 1/3 c. semi-sweet chocolate chips
1/2 c. butter
1/2 tsp. vanilla extract
1/2 c. sugar
1/4 tsp. salt
3 T. all-purpose flour
4 eggs
1 T. baking cocoa
Optional: m&m's candies
Place chocolate and butter in a microwave safe bowl. Microwave on high for 30 seconds at a time until melted. stir until smooth. Stir in vanilla.
Mix sugar, salt and flour in a small bowl. Stir into chocolate mixture.
Beat with an electric mixer on medium. Add eggs, one at a time, and beat on high for 4 minutes. Chill until cold.
Grease 8 cups of a muffin tin lightly. Sprinkle with cocoa and shake off any extra cocoa.
Pour 1/4 c. of batter into each muffin cup. Bake for 10-11 minutes at 375 degrees, until cakes are set on outside but gooey inside. (Don't over bake).
Turn out onto dessert plates and sprinkle with m&m's Serve warm.
I think I'll leave Friday open this week. We've had a really hard time getting to everything each week. I don't think we've been able to do all the activities yet for any of the weeks...so, I'm making Friday a free day/catch up day.
Other free activities you may be interested in this week:
Tuesday and Wednesday (June 29-30): Free movies at 10 am, UA Fossil Creek
This week they are showing: Astro Boy and Rugrats in Paris
Wednesday: Sugar-Free All Stars, Saginaw Rec. Center @ 10am (not sure what this is exactly)
Thursday: Ringling Circus Clown Saginaw Library 4 pm
Supply List:
flour (lots of it!)
salt (lots of it!)
vegetable oil
empty soda bottle
red food coloring
liquid detergent
baking soda
vinegar
chocolate chips
butter
vanilla
eggs
cocoa
m&m candies
Supply List:
flour (lots of it!)
salt (lots of it!)
vegetable oil
empty soda bottle
red food coloring
liquid detergent
baking soda
vinegar
chocolate chips
butter
vanilla
eggs
cocoa
m&m candies
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